SOLVING YOUR MARRIAGE PROBLEM

In today's living, marriages are faced with crisis ranging from minor to major. All crisis are created by man and can also be handled by man. For there is nothing that happen on its own. There are man-made. The ones which may be classify as minor though not really minor because of it inexplicable effect on marriage if not handled carefully includes: lies, disrespect, intolerance, lack of understanding, etc. whereas the major crisis include such things as: assault, wife battering, divorce, shifting of family responsibility to one person, neglect, lack of love, infidelity, secrecy, etc. Yet careful observation of the minor and major crisis, one will see that they could be avoided if spouses work collectively and honestly to settle them. Marriage is an institution which is meant for adult who are matured both in thought and understanding. However, many people enters into marriage as a result of age, finance and family status without necessarily learning tolerance and understanding which are salient properties for a happy and sustained marriage. This is because the man and woman are two different people before they were married, and are from two different backgrounds, and sometime, dissimilar cultures and languages. Culture and language has a way of influencing people’s life thereby impacting the nature of one’s personality. Thus with this awareness is therefore, a successful marriage involves two properties; 1. Tolerance 2. Understanding These two are embodied in love that without which it become impossible to show true love one to another. As we know, love without understanding and tolerance is no true love and so will soon degenerate into dislike and infidelity. Therefore, to succeed in marriage one must have tolerant and understanding. These two requirements are timeless as they help put behind one a partner’s fault which might in a way look extremely unpleasant to the other partner’s very eye. Love is burn from the heart, and since understanding is a thing of the mind; likewise tolerance. The way a spouse do a thing may not appeal or impress the other, and where there is no tolerance there is bound to be misunderstanding which breeds problem. It is understanding that drives tolerance between husband and wife. Where these properties exist in marriage there is bound to be effective communication in such homes, but the reverse is the case, there is bound to be problem and no communication. This can only be observed when spouses are willing to work collectively and honestly with one another without the tendency to maintain secrecy or other unhealthy atmosphere. Tolerance and understanding strengthens relationship and also help build affection, forgiving heart, one spirit and closeness. Therefore, in order for you to solve your marriage problem and enjoy a sustained and peaceful home, Understanding and Tolerance are required from you. they are the vitamins for a successful and ubroken home.